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Old 12-12-2008, 10:08 AM
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Little background info.. I have been seeing this guy for about a month that I met on yahoo personals.. Nice guy..successful..fun to be around.. we have been out to eat/to the movies.. I was the first one he introduced to his house roomates.. well.. tonight I ran across his ad on a man4sex site... his ad says"If i'm on-line I'm looking to play or chat. Hit me up!"then lists.."what he's into".. (by the way there is a posted d**k pic that was not in yahoo profile) He seems to be upfront with me.. He is 24.. comes from a well off family.. so has money.. I am currently a junior in college... have been visiting him during the week/weekends.. so.. question is.. what should I do? Do I bring it up to him/question him posting this? Do I ask if he is just using me for sex? He has invited me to his house tomorrow evening.. should I go? I appreciate any help that you all give... if need more info.. let me know.. thanks everyone in advance!I have seen him about 10times in the last month.. He travels a bit often.. will he be even more apt to meet another guy? Should I offer us to just be friends? Smart guy.. going to be so upset if this does not workout..should I make another name on ad site to see what he says/if he trys to hook up with me.. thinking I am someone else?

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Old 12-16-2008, 03:10 AM
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I'd go to his house and bring up the page, and see what he does... if you're into him, then the night may continue in great success... i mean you were browsing the male4sex site...
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Old 12-16-2008, 12:58 PM
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Stay away. He is lier to the people.
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Old 12-20-2008, 03:00 PM
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It sounds like he's playing games. You need to talk to him, if you don't it will drive you crazy, and go from there. Decide if this is the type of relationship you want.
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Old 12-25-2008, 09:24 AM
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How do you feel about him? Do you think he is relationship material? Can you imagine picking out furniture out with him? Once you know exactly how you feel, and if you want him to be that guy, then talk to him and find out where you stand with him.
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Old 12-26-2008, 12:44 AM
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Has he actually promised you anything, or have you just assumed? I really don't think you should play games with him, because if he is the real deal and he finds out.... Just ask him where you stand. You don't have to bring up the pictures etc straight away. Be clever - ask him questions about whether he wants an exclusive relationship, and if he says yes, then confront him about the photos. DON'T game play. Good luck!
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Are the two of you officially an item,or are you just dating?...If you're not exclusive he can continue date whomever he wants and it's none of your business.
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Talk to him.
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You know---make life easy on yourself..don't play games..it'll just get confusing...just ask him upfront what it means.
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miss undestanding is a big issue in new relationship.

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