Relationship Advice NEEDED for someone who is OVER THE TOP IN LOVE?

Andre L · #1 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 02:47 AM

My partner and I have been in a relationship for two years. And she has had phone sex with one of her anonoumous friends. I have investigated the matter and have found that is all that has happened. (I hired an undercover-investigator). Do you think that this is cheating?I believe it CERTIANLY rises to the level of dishonesty, but is it really cheating?SIGNED!DIARY OF A MAD BLACK MAN!!! lol

TwyztedChyck · #2 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 02:03 PM

In the very least, it's questionable behaviour. Ask her about it. See if she tells the truth. My mama always said"If someone will lie to you, they'll steal from you. And if they'll steal from you, they'll kill you."And it's so true. Cheating is a form of lying, and phone sex with someone while in a relationship with someone else is, in my book, just WRONG. Is it cheating? It's right up there with it. Either way, it breaks the trust in the relationship, and that's never good.

usnavy_wife07 · #3 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 09:14 PM

That is no reason to not rust her. It was just phone sex. At least thats all it was. She didn't go out and find some 1 else and have SEX. I would be happy that is was just phone sex. You need to sit down and talk to her about this. Good luck

Jessica21 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 11:05 AM

I agree this is dishonesty but i would defenitely consider this a form of emotional cheating! she was 100% aware of what she was taking part in and did it willingly! this is not a physical cheat but how does it make you feel knowing that your girlfriend wsa on the phone with another man and touching her self to his direction and probably moaning and talking about what she will do to him, it is wrong! and its decieving i wouldnt waste another moment with her...if this is what she does in her spare time than imagine what she is capable of in the future!