why does it hurt me to have sex in this position?please be adults about this,no rude answers?

It hurts me too sometimes! It's so frustrating. I also don't know the reason behind it, but I noticed that if we don't have sex for like a week or something, that's when it hurts. If we have sex everyday, it doesn't hurt me anymore.

That's because he's hitting the opening of your cervix. The thrusting is too deep, so he needs not to go so deep.

ya boys kinda like me....big wiener. go doggy and lean back on your legs a little. the angle keeps him from going to deep. plus it ll feel great for both of you CZ the friction your causing with your thighs tight ; )

It may be possible that you have a shallow vagina or that his penis is long. When the girl is on top, penetration is deeper, that's why it hurts more for you in that position. Try laying side by side (in spooning position) or doggier style with your legs pulled together, both use your backside as padding so penetration is not as deep but provide a lot of friction so it will be pleasurable.

Another reason may be lack of lubrication, trust me a little lube goes a long way.

Either way, you should see a Geno and ask her.

STD please get checked my partner cheated on me and i didn't no i got chlamydia and i went to the doctor because sex was so income for me i wish i caught it sooner just thinking he was too big etc i left it too late and I'm infertile now!

He's most likely banging into your cervix opening... It does hurt... I have to be careful so it won't happen. Just stick to positions that don't allow deep penetration and you'll be fine.

Hi - this pain is caused by your cervix (neck of your womb) being knocked about during penetration. We ALL know what that feels like, and it isn't pleasant.

It's difficult to say this, but it's usually caused by one of two things, or BOTH things. The first is that the guy is too large. The second is that the woman is not aroused enough. Or it can be a combination of both.

One position which helps avoid that nasty pain, is to lie in the missionary position but keep your legs together, so that you can control the depth of penetration. This is only a short-term answer; the only 'cure' is much more foreplay, more lubricant, and a lot of experimenting to find out which positions you can tolerate. Also, your partner needs to be both sympathetic and careful. If you have become afraid of this pain, you are hardly likely to be fully open and relaxed in your attitude towards penetration.

Good luck.