Having sex for the first time tomorrow, and im really nervous, advice?
Sex AdviceOne of the most sacred gifts we can share is that of Sex. Making love is one of the areas in life that is touchy to talk about, so we have derived a section specifically for sex questions. Do not be shy, for you shall not be judged for how you use your gift.
The reason that you are nervous is that, unless you are married, it is wrong to throw away the Gift that God has given you of your virginity.............once that Gift has been thrown away ( as opposed to given to a spouse ) then it can never be yours again...............think seriously before making any rash decisions !!!
Honey, I can tell your young cause of your icon.
And I'm guessing Ur not married, make sure your doing this with the right guy, You don't have to love him but make sure you both have generally respect for each other.
And It hurts, cause Ur breaking Ur hymen. You should save Ur virginity to your husband, it's a precious thing and shouldn't be given out to your "boyfriend".
Dont do it! Holding hands leads to sex and sex leads to dancing. And unless you or your partner can break it down your going to be in some serious trouble.
If you're really nervous, you're really not ready. Having sex and falling in love with the wrong person can screw you up. If you were in love, you probably wouldn't be so nervous. I won't say wait until marriage, but wait until you're in love and aren't afraid for any reasons.
Doing it on a preset date is gonna suck. You cant just say that your gonna do it on a certain day or else its not the same as when you do it when it feels right. That is unless tomorrow is the right time.
honest to god, my opinion is dent do it. I am 17 lost my virginity at 16 and regret it every since. I wish I would have waited the weirdest part I'm a guy ..... my girlfriend doesn't regret it but I do. Just don't do it. It will happen by desire not plans. If you plan it, it doesn't share the same value to yourself as if it was to happen. Sorry if I am giving you the wrong advice but please trust me on this one, but if you choose not to make sure he has a condom
just go with the flow honestly. if it's not natural, don't push it and make it happen. make sure you are ready for the possible consequences that can happen when you have sex. i waited til i was with my boyfriend for over a year, and i was emotionally ready. if you get to it and you don't feel ready, DON'T do it. if you are, use protection. i made that mistake.
Screw everyone for there comments. You didn't ask if they thought you were ready! Nerves are a good thing. Just take things slow with kissing and if it doesn't feel right at the time you aren't getting a trophy for this either way so its OK to save it for another time. Talk about it with him if you are worried about anything!
well i know its hard to do because its your first time, but DO NOT BE NERVOUS its the worst thing you can do. Be natural, be sensual. Just dint think much about it and let everything flow naturally.
Don't do it! Asking this question CLEARLY states you aren't ready! If the guy gets pissed off about it, then forget him! He's not right for you then.
Listen to everyone who's telling you NOT to do it! I FULLY agree with Happy Gramps.
it is God given and you will NEVER get it back. It should be saved for that one special someone.I hope you choose not to. But if you do, please use protection
Having sex for the first time tomorrow, and im really nervous, advice?
Its a gift you can only give one, make sure he is worth it!!
