Help me. I need sex advice.?

dint knock something down unless you try it

If you don't want to do it, don't do it. If he really cares about you he would understand

Tell him 'I'd love that too! And you can pick the man we invite in!'

That should nip that idea in the bud quite nicely.

Never do anything you're not comfortable with. Personally I couldn't handle the thought of seeing my partner with another girl.

You convey your feelings firmly to your B/f.Admiral V K Singh

If something is not for you, you tell your partner about it, a threesome could ruin your relationship so don't entertain it...

Compromise? well u could always go to a spot where you can watch other people have sex...that is as close of a compromise u can get

I agree with Aloose; if you don't feel comfortable with that tell him. Don't try anything till you are ready.

Pose this question to him: Are you suggesting that we have another male involved or another female? His response will begin to answer your inquiry. If he suggests another female, it will indicate a selfishness on his part and perhaps a disinterest in you...certainly his lack of fidelity, existing or contemplated. If he suggests another male, he is looking to satisfy his own fetish..get rid of him yesterday.

is this a BBG or GGB Threesome..tell him you also need a threesome with 2 boys..
and see what he is gonna say..

If the thought of it disgusts you then don't even consider it. For me, I think a three some would be exciting and fun to try IF I was single and with two other single people. I could never watch my partner be with someone else whether I was involved or not.

I don't think there is a compromise but maybe you could suggest something else that is new instead. When he says "So how about a three some?" say to him "Ooo I don't think I would be able to watch you be with someone else, I would still see it as cheating...but instead why don't we watch porn together and play with each other" or something that you haven't tried. This way you aren't saying no you are just changing the thing he gets. It could be something as simple as him being blindfolded and tied up and you teasing him.

I don't think there are many girls who could be in a three some with their partner so don't feel bad! I know I wouldn't do it.

Good luck

Hey ... i think you should clear it out right away ... once you fall into something its hard to get out ... besides ask him that if he loves you ... then why bring someone in between ... rest is up to you dear ... best of luck ...

First off, major props to your Tesla reference there

Secondly, if you don't want it, make it clear to him that you don't want it. If the relationship between the two of you is tight enough, he ought to respect your wishes. Like Zoe said, there is no compromise, he needs to understand where you're coming from. Just be straight up about it to him.

In terms of different things you could do, there's always co splay (like your dressing up in a really sexy outfit) and / or role playing, and another idea is tying either him or yourself to a bed; maybe even blindfolding as well-it may sound a little strange but it makes things very exciting-and suggest that to him.

If he's really being a jerk about things and he's not respecting your wishes and boundaries, you may want to look into where the relationship is going..

his feelings for you are already messed up or he wouldn't want this. I'd say the clock is ticking on this relationship.