I think i'm addicted to sex, and i can't go a weekend without taking a girl back to mine...I need advice?

Bola de Fogo · #1 (**permalink**) 08-16-2009, 09:32 PM

Yeah so basically i think I'm addicted to sex, and the reason for this is because whenever I'm out in public and see a hot girl, I'll give her the eye and i get really h0RN around women. I have recently moved out of my parent's home about 2 months ago, and since I've been living on my own I've had a girl back every Saturday night since. Sometimes the girl doesn't even have to be that attractive, i mean i have literally slept with girls who are below average, probably 4 out of 10's but they had a nice body. I actually cannot go a Saturday night without taking a girl back to my place, whether i meet her at a club or walking back through town after the club's close. One girl i met at a bus stop and she was wearing a mini dress and looked cute, but i could tell she was a little tipsy so i persuaded her to come back to mine and I'd drive her home in the morning, so she came back to mine and spent the night. I do pick up girls when I'm tipsy too, but even though I'm drunk i know what I'm doing, so it's not like I'm doing anything wrong. I just think i might need to see someone, or is this just natural?

**sheree** · #2 (**permalink**) 08-18-2009, 09:32 PM

add me on face book

gabiota83 · #3 (**permalink**) 08-20-2009, 09:32 PM

Is it the actual physical sex you like? Or the attention you get from girls? Or the fact that you always bring someone home and you like the game? Either way, they are all just a release of tension. Try finding a constructive outlet for your "tension". Or just when you feel the urge to take someone home...don't.

Maggie · #4 (**permalink**) 08-23-2009, 09:32 PM

In other words you've become sex addicted. Having sex 1-3 times a week is perfectly natural in a relationship. I don't think picking up a girl every Saturday shouldn't be a problem either. But if you are constantly picking up girls, then you might have problem staying in relationship with a girl later on in your life. You might want to talk to a nearby sex counselor to avoid your creeping anxiety. There are plenty of sex counselor available for free in nearby cities.

Vampira of treehuggers · #5 (**permalink**) 08-28-2009, 09:32 PM

THE REASON you are an addict, is because there is something you feel you are missing or have missed, and the sex "soothes" whatever that need is.

THIS is true for ANY addict - there is no "other" reason you are an addict. It's NOT funny, cute, or in any WAY OK - addicts HURT others - especially those who really care about them. IF you continue blowing this off as no big deal, eventually it WILL come back on you and slap you down HARD. Possibly two or three of these girls will all wind up pregnant at the same time?

It's known as Karma - you need to get some professional help and learn better ways to handle your issues. Addiction is NEVER a good thing.

josh0584 · #6 (**permalink**) 08-30-2009, 09:32 PM

Sometimes I buy gum with my allowance, and if I have more I buy myself more gloves.

♥Butterfly♥ · #7 (**permalink**) 09-01-2009, 09:32 PM

What can I say "lucky you"

and you worry, soon enough you won't get any so enjoy, while you can. I hope your smart enough to use protection though, and practise safe sex.

Time T · #8 (**permalink**) 09-06-2009, 09:32 PM

Only Saturday nights? Once a week? Hardly an addiction, just a bit less than average.

Twoicys · #9 (**permalink**) 09-08-2009, 09:32 PM

Basically get your mind onto something else

lovedynamics · #10 (**permalink**) 01-12-2012, 01:27 AM

If it was me I'd say enjoy it for what it is. There is no right or wrong. Its up to you how you see it

undecided13 · #11 (**permalink**) 01-31-2012, 09:26 PM

I think you have something going for you if you can get sex that often. Somewhere along the line you are going to meet a girl who sweeps you off your feet and you fall in love. Try looking for love more often.