how to have an orgasm faster?

i can have one, but it takes awhile. i use the shower head method so how can i make it happen faster

I can't tell you every way there is to have "the best" or "the fastest" orgasm... every girl and woman is different, and it would take way longer for me to type it all out than it would for you to give yourself "the fastest" (which might take as little as 20 or 30 seconds)... but one thing you can do to find out is check out the "Female Masturbation" web pages at clinical-dot-com ...
http://www.clitical.com/female-masturbation/masturbation-basics.php
Especially the "advanced" pages at
http://www.clitical.com/female-masturbation/masturbation-techniques.php
to read up on lots of ways you can improve things. (Actually, the entire section is incredibly valuable reading, but there's an awful lot of it to digest in one gulp.)

Something else: if you've got some dough to spend... *this* little toy is about the best thing there is.

http://we-vibe.com/content/design

I bought one for my GF and m e for Christmass, and not only did she take it home to get used to it solo (she was *amazed*) before we tried it together, but we just used it during sex yesterday, and I can tell you from her experience (she had 14 orgasms in less than half an hour) and mine (having an orgasm inside a vibrating vagina that's pulsating and pulling on me with its own orgasm is *incredible*) that it's the best sex toy anyone has ever made.

I'm not kidding. Save your pennies if you can't afford one. There's nothing else like this thing *anywhere*.