How to help my bf orgasm when receiving oral sex? Guys' tips greatly appreciated!?

roberto · #1 (**permalink**) 08-16-2010, 11:39 AM

Hey there! I love giving my bf attention down south as much, if not more so, than he does. However, usually we use oral sex as just foreplay. When I do occasionally follow all the way through, I find it very hard to get my bf to reach orgasm. He certainly enjoys it, but I want to be able to finish him off more often, and with less of a struggle. Obviously each person is different, but if you have any experience with this issue and have a tip, please let me know!

Also, any extra suggestions to make it feel super good both just in the process of getting a b job or coming is greatly appreciated. What do you guys love down there?
I should add that my bf doesn't have trouble lasting too long/short in bed, but he's found his little friend to be very picky about oral. We communicate when I go down, but even though everything feels good, it's sometimes good in a more relaxing way than sexual...

Ashlee. · #2 (**permalink**) 08-19-2010, 11:39 AM

Try putting your finger in his anus and tapping on his prostate

auntb93again · #3 (**permalink**) 08-21-2010, 11:39 AM

The big part on the end is RIDICULOUSLY sensitive. Use tongue on it, and try to combine Hand-Job and Blow-Job into the same thing :3

Kaylee · #4 (**permalink**) 08-24-2010, 11:39 AM

I just answered this like, an hour ago. Direct quote of myself:
"Do's:
Make sure he's totally erect first
Use spit as lube
Make sure you use your hands a bit too. It's difficult to get it right with just the mouth.
Ask him what felt good/bad after wards.
Lick just below the head (It's extremely sensitive)

Don'ts:
Bite
Use teeth in any way
Stop (Unless he says so)

Experiments:
Some people have said it felt better if the girl's mouth was tremendously cold. The shock of it was a good thing. Don't do this the first time and talk about it with him beforehand, but to try something new fill your mouth with ice and let it melt. As soon as your mouth is cold or the ice melts, try oral sex.See how he responds."

Brooky · #5 (**permalink**) 08-28-2010, 11:39 AM

mum ask him . that would help a lot .

EastEndLass · #6 (**permalink**) 08-31-2010, 11:39 AM

This one is new, never have heard of a guy being slow, mostly it is guys being too fast. Some at the first "contact". This may be more than we or you can handle. It might take professional help. Only a psychological answer will do. I will look for your answer if you see a therapist. I would do that, his problem could be serious not get better on it own.

tballbabe · #7 (**permalink**) 09-02-2010, 11:39 AM

Start out kind of slow, kiss and lick all around. Best advice is to use your tongue a lot.