How do I stay focused during sex and any tips on how to orgasm?

vnmatranjan · #1 (**permalink**) 08-15-2010, 11:49 AM

Okay, it may seem like a dumb question but seriously, how do I have sex & actually orgasm. I find myself wandering in & out of the pleasure. Normally you are supposed to be focusing on the pleasure but half way through, I get tired and focus on that. Then I lose the feeling, Or, it'll go on for so long that I start to focus on that, then again, I lose the good feeling. Any advice on how to stay focused during sex & any tips on how to orgasm?

diamonds24 · #2 (**permalink**) 08-19-2010, 11:49 AM

get some biting into the action, sorry if this is awkward, but what really turns me on is when my boyfriend bites me or he would jerk at me and make me pay attention, kind of like cat and mouse, possibly if you both are open to it there's always the possibility of getting toys into the equation.
i know what you mean by your question too because its happened to me.. but yea just do things that you and your boyfriend will be new too

HAVE FUN!! Lil

Vet Tech · #3 (**permalink**) 08-24-2010, 11:49 AM

.It's all about foreplay.You need to guide his finger to the erotic zone in your cl it.Needs to be the speed and pressure,for your pleasure,If he does this correctly you'll have a blinding orgasm.they'll leave you spent and gasping

Madina · #4 (**permalink**) 08-27-2010, 11:49 AM

sometimes going in and out just doesn't do it..
play around before make sure Ur really turned on and practically begging for him to pleasure you and when he goes in moan.. even if u dint need to fake it it really helps. hold on to something have him spank u and rub your **** from the top and include some licking sucking.. dint make it all serious.. stop make out leave it play around