Havent had sex in a long time. Any advice for doing it again?

Rolando M · #1 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 04:56 AM

I am a widower and have just met a new partner. She would like me to consummate our relationship but I have not had sex for a long time and am worried I may not be able to perform. any advice?

Shawna H · #2 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 06:27 PM

Take your time - when it's right, it's right.

Dimples · #3 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 10:38 PM

It's just like riding a bike...you never forget. Just relax, be calm, and share your worries with her! She'll help you. I am sorry for your loss, and wish you luck.

joeschlobotnic · #4 (**permalink**) 12-27-2008, 06:48 AM

My bet is it's something like riding a bicycle. Once you do it ....Take your cues from her. Maybe she has things she'd like and you may find they are fun for you too.Good luck

Billy bob jr. · #5 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 04:18 PM

Foreplay with your self, If you can get an rise you should be fine.If not stop at your doctor and ask for free samples of Viagra (more the likely he/she will have some on hand due to the sales person always dropping free samples off)

needlewings · #6 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 05:00 AM

masterbate. Practice makes perfect.

Jo-BusTaH · #7 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 05:56 AM

yea they call it a little tiney tiny bitey blur pill called the"miracle Worker"""go buy it (it also goes by viagra)

Volleyball · #8 (**permalink**) 03-13-2009, 06:24 PM

My advice is to read some books. look on the internet.