Sex life... Not so great need advice.?

Bob F · #1 (**permalink**) 08-15-2010, 02:56 PM

So I love the guy. He sweeps me off my feet.. except in the bedroom.. :/ UGH. It's frustrating. It's not something I would break up with him over.. Just wish it was better. Not sure how to accomplish this. It's only to the point where I don't feel much of anything at all. Any advice to make him not feel too bad and me feel better?

SteveC · #2 (**permalink**) 08-20-2010, 02:56 PM

You can come visit me a couple times a month to tide you over.

But are you cute? And do you have money? And can you cook?

foofoo · #3 (**permalink**) 08-23-2010, 02:56 PM

is it his size or how he's using it ? try using sex toys for itself and ask your boyfriend to please you in other ways so that orgasm before sex. this way if the sex is rubbish then at least you got what you wanted

Jonny B. · #4 (**permalink**) 08-28-2010, 02:56 PM

If you know how to please yourself, then you should show him. Sex is much better when you can tell your partner if something isn't working, and you are both willing to try to please the other person. Don't be worried about hurting his feelings, just suggest something that you may like to try and if you like it let him know. If he knows he is making you feel good he will hopefully keep doing those things. But really you should talk about it. It will make your entire relationship much stronger.

Trey V · #5 (**permalink**) 09-02-2010, 02:56 PM

Surprise buttocks will solve all your problems.