How can I bring myself to orgasm when masturbating?

xxnotsoluckyxx · #1 (**permalink**) 08-08-2010, 06:19 PM

Ok well I'm really into sex and stuff and I really want to be able to bring myself to a BIG orgasm by masturbating. Im only 15 so i dint have much experience but i don't seem to be able to make myself "climax". I've tried fingering myself (which felt good but i didn't orgasm) and I've also tried using a shower head but it didn't work, it only felt uncomfortable. I really want to give myself a really big orgasm but I dint know if i can... is there something wrong or am i not doing it right or what?!?!

thanks :-) x

DJE · #2 (**permalink**) 08-10-2010, 06:19 PM

Some women can't achieve it on their own. Just have sex, and then finger yourself DURING the sex.

luckylover · #3 (**permalink**) 08-13-2010, 06:19 PM

vibrator! or anything that vibrates, and put that sucker o your cl it! put pressure on it. or if you don't have a toy use your fingers and run your cl it how ever you please, and then do it faster or harder. Lil it feels great. if you want i can show you.

hasicit · #4 (**permalink**) 08-18-2010, 06:19 PM

It's unlikely that you will have an orgasm until you start investigating your clitoris. That is where pleasure is centered for most women. There are lots of other erogenous zones on the body, and you can touch all parts of yourself, and see what feels good. What's going on in your brain when you're touching yourself is important too. If your just thinking, "What about here?" it's not likely that you're going to find a spot anywhere that feels like more than a finger on your body. But if you are reading erotic stories, or thinking sexy thoughts (like about someone you have a crush on kissing you), you're more likely to find places that feel good to you.

Below is a link to an article about your sexual anatomy, another on how to masturbate, and another on sexual response and orgasm. Between the three of them, you should at least be able to improve your pleasure. If you still can't have an orgasm, consider buying a vibrating mas sager or toothbrush, and putting that next to your clitoris. Intense vibration is what some women require.

Good luck.

girlnextdoor · #5 (**permalink**) 08-19-2010, 06:19 PM

Ive always had the best orgasm in the shower, lay down in the turd and aim the warm water at Your cl it and ass, that should work,, let Me know if you need more tips,,
and check this site out

http://www.letsmasturbate.com/

kateee · #6 (**permalink**) 08-20-2010, 06:19 PM

You let me in

piphop · #7 (**permalink**) 08-21-2010, 06:19 PM

You should be using a little bit of oil so that everything is nice and slippery. Even just a tiny bit of vegetable oil would work great. Your touch should be pretty light and sort of tickle. Don't go straight for your clitoris, start with the entire outer area of your labia. After a couple of minutes you can start moving to your inner labia and then up to your clitoris.

You can insert a finger into your vagina but that is not likely to bring you to orgasm. A woman has way less nerve endings in her vagina than she does on her vulva and especially her clitoris. This is why it is far more common for a woman to have clitoral orgasms and not so much with vaginal orgasms.

A big part of sex is mental. If you're thinking non sexual thoughts while touching yourself you probably won't have much of a reaction. I like to have a little fantasy going on in my head while I masturbate. You could also read something sexual or even watch porn but if you do don't believe to much of what you see. Remember that none of it is real!!

I hope you keep at it till you find the touch that does it for you. Masturbation is really important for girls because you need to learn about your body. There are a lot of guys out there that have very little idea of what they're doing but when you know what you like you can teach him.

http://www.femaleclitoralstimulationtechniques.com/