How do i know when i'm having an orgasm or am about to have one?

antwan1357 · #1 (**permalink**) 08-24-2010, 06:56 PM

I'm 15 have never had sex and have masturbated quite a lot by fingering my clitoris. Usually, after a while, i start to feel like i need to pee. Then after i continue fingering my vagina muscles start to feel tight and sore so i stop. Is there something wrong with me or is this what it feels like to get an orgasm or at least begin to get one. Also when i get one how do have one for longer? Much appreciated.

Imlladris · #2 (**permalink**) 08-27-2010, 06:56 PM

you are getting close, just keep going. This forum has children on it, I cannot give explicit advice.

k_kat74512 · #3 (**permalink**) 08-31-2010, 06:56 PM

Your having one.(:

hybrid1 · #4 (**permalink**) 09-04-2010, 06:56 PM

you should go to doctors immediately.

Showmefire · #5 (**permalink**) 09-09-2010, 06:56 PM

Yes, you're getting there. There's nothing to worry about or be guilty about -- just enjoy it. It's actually good for you, too.

Try to tighten your muscles inside to help it along, use plenty of lubricant or hand cream, and try a mini mas sager or vibrator if you want to get there quicker. Your first orgasm will probably be a mind-blower -- don't worry, it's meant to be!

faith41jesus · #6 (**permalink**) 09-13-2010, 06:56 PM

when you get to the point that you vagina tightens up on the inside you are about to be there. Orgasm in some women culminates with ejaculation.. Those women are the ones that get the feeling that they are about to pee when you get close. that is the feeling that men get when they start to get close. you need to just keep going. if you have fingers inside then you will be able to feel the pressure build, push through it, and i mean push, CZ u will have to in order to keep your fingers in.

You are so close and you give up.... once you allow it to flow you will realize the feelings and be good from there. read up on female ejaculation. you sound like you can.