Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it but just tonight on the phone, my gf said "I have a story to tell you but not tonight." So I made the comment "How about Valentines night"? and she said, "Yes, that would be good." Those are pretty well the exact words. We have a motel room set up for that night. Just from the way she talked over the phone, sort of different you know, I think the deed has been done.